Thamma,
Today I felt as ashamed and lonely as a little child whose friends mocked him for being an Orphan.
for the sake of a trivial argument, a close friend suddenly picks up and says,
" Well, you didn't get to see your dying grandmother"
Adult relationships are tricky and i have not been spared.
But i resist like an old blind man who holds out his stick at all who push him around and make fun.